## Courage is a habit, not a trait
Bravery doesn't arrive in one big moment. It's built day by day, in the small choices we encourage our kids to make.
Here are five things you can do this week.
### 1. Let them order their own food
At a restaurant, let your child speak to the server directly. It feels small. It's not.
### 2. Name the hard feeling
When they're scared, say: "That's called anxiety. Your body is getting ready to be brave."
### 3. Celebrate the try, not just the win
After a hard attempt: "I'm so proud you tried that. That takes guts."
### 4. Let them make age-appropriate choices
Give real decisions -- what to wear, which book first, which park -- so they practice trusting themselves.
### 5. Tell them about a time you were scared
Kids think adults aren't afraid. Show them courage isn't the absence of fear -- it's what you do with it.
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Waymaker Youth
Youth Editor
Stories and ideas from the Waymaker Youth team.